I am eventually moving from New Jersey to North Carolina, hopefully. Cary, NC area or Wake Forest, NC area. I like this messageboard the best for discussion on moving from NJ to NC.

http://www.city-data.com/forum/north-carolina/

They even have a post about getting I.T. Jobs when you move to North Carolina from somewhere else.

http://www.city-data.com/forum/north-carolina/86572-job-oppurtunities.html